North Valley News | A Ministry of NVBC

7 Supplements for the Happy Heart

7 Supplements for a Happy Heart

written by on the topic of Featured, Ladies Only on February, 2011

It has been several months since I have written an article for the North Valley News, and it is with some reluctance that I write this one. Trying to determine what to write, I have asked myself several times what could I say that would be pertinent to fit needs while being a blessing and an encouragement to you.

A lot of water has gone under the bridge since my last “For Women Only” article.  During 2010, many happenings in my life in have been exciting and wonderful, while others have been heart-wrenching and devastating. It is easy to praise God when things go smoothly; but when heartaches and disappointments come, that can be a different story. If you’ve had one of those “less  fortunate” experiences in your life, you know what it’s like to have well-meaning people try to cheer you up and give you plenty of advice and, of course, Scripture. While people mean well (and I have done the same thing), quoting Scripture and telling someone  that God has everything under control doesn’t always bring comfort.

Now, before you say,  “Wow, Mrs. Trieber, how unspiritual of you,” let me explain. When a person has been saved for years and is truly seeking a close relationship with the Lord, that person really doesn’t need someone quoting Romans 8:28 to her. She knows it is in the Bible and probably has quoted it many times herself. Another thing people don’t need to hear is about your experiences and how bad you have or have had it! I know we would all like to think our situation is a “ first,” but it just isn’t so. We’ve all read the quote,

“When life gives you lemons, make lemonade”

and many others just like it. There’s no need to share them with a seasoned Christian going through dark days.

Let me share with you what one friend  did for me. She wrote a personal note in her own handwriting, (not a text or an e-mail) and  simply said: “ I know you have gone through some difficult experiences  and although  I can’t say  anything  you don’t already know,  I  wanted to let you  know that I am praying for you.” That was it, cut and dried! I read the note and thought, “No story to share and no list of Psalms or Scriptures to read? That’s unusual.” That simple note from a dear friend many miles away made me realize how  I need to be careful with the advice I give and the comments I offer when others are going through hard times.

February is known as national “Love Your Heart” month. You can easily pick up more than one magazine in your local grocery store or Target that will suggest good things to do for your heart like diet, exercise and supplements that all promise to be “heart healthy.” Suffering from a broken heart can hurt so deeply that it actually causes your physical heart to hurt. Let me encourage you with this thought: broken hearts do mend even though, at the time, it doesn’t seem they ever will. Do what is necessary to help with your heartache—like reading Scripture, praying, singing songs and hymns—then let God do His perfect work in your life.

Keep in mind that you are not the first to be acquainted with sorrow, grief and pain; and be very careful what you say to others during their difficult times. You will be so glad you did!

Until next month,
Mrs. Trieber

About the Author

Cindie Trieber has served the people of our ministry for more than three decades as the Pastor’s Wife. She teaches in the college and is a godly mother and “Nana." She recently completed her first book entitled With All My Heart.

Looking for more?

8 comments

  1. Cynthia

    Feb 10, 2011

    *sigh*
    So true what you have shared. Thank you for the reminder. :)

    Reply
  2. Mama Dyke

    Feb 10, 2011

    Cindie: I love this article. Sure makes a lot of sense and hopefully, folks will heed your advice. I ‘KNOW’ all to well what you are describing above. You are precious and thank you for being exactly who you are. I love you. I pray for you and your family daily.
    Mama Dyke

    Reply
  3. Amy

    Feb 11, 2011

    Thank you so much for being real in your article. I truly appreciate everything you said.

    Reply
  4. Daphne Tidwell

    Feb 11, 2011

    Hello Mrs. Treiber!
    Thank you for that! I miss reading your “For Ladies Only” bits. You are always a Blessing. Hope you and Your Family are doing well. It was great to see you awhile back! You all are in my prayers!
    God Bless!
    Daphne Tidwell

    Reply
  5. Samuel (India)

    Feb 11, 2011

    Absolutely Amazing and touching. Thank You Maam.

    Reply
  6. Tiffany Long

    Feb 12, 2011

    This was exactly what I needed. Thank you!!

    Reply
  7. Mrs Keren Elrod

    May 12, 2011

    Thank you, Mrs Trieber, for being so real!!! Our family has been through “those times”. Everything you said is SO TRUE! What a great reminder for all of us to heed. I needed this today….God bless you and your family!!!

    Reply

What do you think?

Name required

Website

Back to Top